Showing posts with label life in latvia. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life in latvia. Show all posts
Sunday, May 31, 2015
The Power of Handmade
Yesterday I pulled out the tin of quilt blocks I cut years ago- blocks for the quilt "Double Wedding Ring" quilt. I love that pattern and it has so many memories attached to it.
It has been probably 15 years since I cut those blocks- and life has changed so much. I left my homeland; my country, married and become a Mom. Yet with those quilt blocks nothing has changed- it is as if time stopped when I laid those hand pieced rows together on the top of neatly stacked piles of still to be sewn blocks.
There are so many memories stored in that box of blocks, so many careful stitches placed years ago when I was still and unmarried maiden. There are so many pieces of fabric in prints that remind me of "home" and my Mom and our quilting days together.
There is such a power in hand work- so many thoughts, dreams, desires are sewn into the seams of quilts and other hand created items.
When I sew by hand I have time to think, to remember, to value those women who taught me to sew and the chain of seamstresses I come from.
Then too there is time for dreaming- about the ones I am sewing this little quilt for and for those so far away.
Each stitch is sewn with love- each piece planned out and carefully cut and placed.
My life of late has been full of paintings on silk, and those too are created with such care and thought. Each brush stroke containing thoughts and dreams of beauty and delight.
There are faster ways of creating these days- and prints can be bought at half the price of originals. But there is nothing that can replace the joy of creating and gifting something you poured your love and dreams into whether sewn, painted, or otherwise created.
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Sunday, January 12, 2014
Outsider
If you have left your homeland and now dwell in a new land perhaps you have often encountered feeling like the outsider.
We learn, we grown, we do our very best to "fit in". And yet then again comes one of the stupid moments when the whole charade comes tumbling down and again you rise above all the locals as the outsider.
I have now lived in this land 8 years. I like to think that being half Latvian makes it easier for me to "fit in". . . But who knows if that is true.
I like this land, most of the time. I like these folks and their country, after all I do have roots here.
But you know, there are some things I really do like about America too.
I miss friendly cashiers- as weird as it may sound. And every time I go to the States I am tickled pink by how friendly cashiers sometimes are- even to the point it makes me laugh wondering how genuine or fake they are. Or perhaps it just how uncommon they seem after the quiet ones here.
I miss feeling "normal."- I have never been one that fits in, even in the States. But at least there I more or less fit in. Here when people find out I was home-schooled they look at me like I must have grown up and been educated on some alien planet.
I miss fast food choices-that is not to say I was ever a big fast food eater. But we don't even have a single fast food place in the city I live in. And now and again I sure would love a slice of Pizza Hut pizza or a taco from Taco Bell.
I miss hearing English- I realized recently that I can say the exact same thing in English as I told someone in Latvian. But only when I hear myself say it in MY language do I really hear (as in my heart feels and understands) what I am saying. I so miss going to an English speaking church- and actually hearing the sermons. I understand Latvian fine, but between trying to keep kids quiet and all the distractions one normally has I don't seem to really hear much of a sermon- or it goes in one ear and out the other.
I miss family- By far the thing hardest about living an ocean from your family is the fact that you rarely meet. Keeping close is hard work and holidays are sad when you can't be together. If you are close enough to give your loved ones a hug- then DO IT!
But then there are those things I love about this place.
I love that all health care for my kids is free.
I love that it is more normal to eat healthy here and finding local products is not difficult and not pricey.
I love that my kids speak 2 languages fluently.
I love that having a vegetable garden is normal :) (When we visited my parents last time in the States we walked all over the city and saw only one garden. We were shocked).
I am proud that I can carry on the Latvian line in my family.
I am thankful that I now have dual citizenship (As of the last couple weeks).
I am blessed to be a part of two worlds.
We learn, we grown, we do our very best to "fit in". And yet then again comes one of the stupid moments when the whole charade comes tumbling down and again you rise above all the locals as the outsider.
I have now lived in this land 8 years. I like to think that being half Latvian makes it easier for me to "fit in". . . But who knows if that is true.
I like this land, most of the time. I like these folks and their country, after all I do have roots here.
But you know, there are some things I really do like about America too.
I miss friendly cashiers- as weird as it may sound. And every time I go to the States I am tickled pink by how friendly cashiers sometimes are- even to the point it makes me laugh wondering how genuine or fake they are. Or perhaps it just how uncommon they seem after the quiet ones here.
I miss feeling "normal."- I have never been one that fits in, even in the States. But at least there I more or less fit in. Here when people find out I was home-schooled they look at me like I must have grown up and been educated on some alien planet.
I miss fast food choices-that is not to say I was ever a big fast food eater. But we don't even have a single fast food place in the city I live in. And now and again I sure would love a slice of Pizza Hut pizza or a taco from Taco Bell.
I miss hearing English- I realized recently that I can say the exact same thing in English as I told someone in Latvian. But only when I hear myself say it in MY language do I really hear (as in my heart feels and understands) what I am saying. I so miss going to an English speaking church- and actually hearing the sermons. I understand Latvian fine, but between trying to keep kids quiet and all the distractions one normally has I don't seem to really hear much of a sermon- or it goes in one ear and out the other.
I miss family- By far the thing hardest about living an ocean from your family is the fact that you rarely meet. Keeping close is hard work and holidays are sad when you can't be together. If you are close enough to give your loved ones a hug- then DO IT!
But then there are those things I love about this place.
I love that all health care for my kids is free.
I love that it is more normal to eat healthy here and finding local products is not difficult and not pricey.
I love that my kids speak 2 languages fluently.
I love that having a vegetable garden is normal :) (When we visited my parents last time in the States we walked all over the city and saw only one garden. We were shocked).
I am proud that I can carry on the Latvian line in my family.
I am thankful that I now have dual citizenship (As of the last couple weeks).
I am blessed to be a part of two worlds.
Labels:
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Saturday, November 23, 2013
The man with the van to the rescue
I was on pins and needles waiting for my husband to get home from work so I could go to work. We switch like that 2x a week. He was running late, so I was too. At least my job doesn't care when I get there- I just get less baked.
I headed off and was trying to get there promptly and safely.
Then I saw flashing lights in my rear view mirror and stopped since it seemed a policeman wanted to pull me over.
When he came to my window I asked him what I had done wrong. He said, "Hold on and I will explain it." In the fluster of finding my wallet in my huge purse, and my drivers license and the car documents, I tried using both English and Latvian. I also hoped he'd be merciful to me, a foreigner.
Finally, he came and showed me that my front RH light wasn't working and only gave me a warning. I was so thankful for that, as I was feeling close to tears and very late for work.
I waited until he was pulling away to try to start my car and then realized it was as DEAD as a doornail. I was stuck! Now what?
Since my emergency lights were flashing someone was quick to stop and try and help. An older man in a mini-van agreed to try and jump my car. It didn't work, he even thought his cables were not working properly because it wouldn't charge up enough to start.
So I took things into my hands and started asking all the men passing by if they'd help push my car. The first said, "I'm in a hurry. I can't." The next walked right on by. The third responded and came over to help. (Does that remind you of anything? Like the good Samaritan? I was shocked these first 2 were heedless to the plight I was in ).
So the older man and the young 3rd man tried pushing me and I was at the wheel.
(NOTE: I never seem to be successful when being pushed to jump the car. I don't know if my timing is off or what. But now I just worry and think it won't work when I'm at the wheel. I still need to learn now to do this!). And of course it didn't work. . .
So I called 2 more guys going past to come and help push and the older man got in at the wheel. Then the 4 of us pushed as fast as we could and YAY success, it started.
I yelled a huge thank you to the three guys as I ran to catch up with my car and profusely thanked the man in the van for rescuing me and got to work extremely late.
It was a crazy day and yet I am thankful that God took care of me and brought 4 men to my rescue. A special thank to the man in the van for taking so much time to try to get my car jumped and seeing it through to the end. Whoever you are or were- you were like an angel sent by God.
I headed off and was trying to get there promptly and safely.
Then I saw flashing lights in my rear view mirror and stopped since it seemed a policeman wanted to pull me over.
When he came to my window I asked him what I had done wrong. He said, "Hold on and I will explain it." In the fluster of finding my wallet in my huge purse, and my drivers license and the car documents, I tried using both English and Latvian. I also hoped he'd be merciful to me, a foreigner.
Finally, he came and showed me that my front RH light wasn't working and only gave me a warning. I was so thankful for that, as I was feeling close to tears and very late for work.
I waited until he was pulling away to try to start my car and then realized it was as DEAD as a doornail. I was stuck! Now what?
Since my emergency lights were flashing someone was quick to stop and try and help. An older man in a mini-van agreed to try and jump my car. It didn't work, he even thought his cables were not working properly because it wouldn't charge up enough to start.
So I took things into my hands and started asking all the men passing by if they'd help push my car. The first said, "I'm in a hurry. I can't." The next walked right on by. The third responded and came over to help. (Does that remind you of anything? Like the good Samaritan? I was shocked these first 2 were heedless to the plight I was in ).
So the older man and the young 3rd man tried pushing me and I was at the wheel.
(NOTE: I never seem to be successful when being pushed to jump the car. I don't know if my timing is off or what. But now I just worry and think it won't work when I'm at the wheel. I still need to learn now to do this!). And of course it didn't work. . .
So I called 2 more guys going past to come and help push and the older man got in at the wheel. Then the 4 of us pushed as fast as we could and YAY success, it started.
I yelled a huge thank you to the three guys as I ran to catch up with my car and profusely thanked the man in the van for rescuing me and got to work extremely late.
It was a crazy day and yet I am thankful that God took care of me and brought 4 men to my rescue. A special thank to the man in the van for taking so much time to try to get my car jumped and seeing it through to the end. Whoever you are or were- you were like an angel sent by God.
Tuesday, November 5, 2013
Two Worlds Married
I have been married now for nearly 7 years and these have been very good, happy years.
When I married a Latvian man I knew I was choosing to live my life forever away from the life grew up with and was familiar with.
Yet, growing up in the States I never thought I'd live there. I studied to be a missionary. I read about missions, I longed for adventure and to see the world.
Now 7 years later I realize that missing ones country, or to be more precise ones family, culture and upbringing never goes away. In fact, if anything the distance has seemed to grow and the difficulty in having every person from my side of the family an ocean away is hard, REALLY hard, and gets only worse with time.
Marriage is a blessing, and cross-cultural marriages can be and are very rewarding. But they have an entire set of problems that 2 people marrying from one country may never face.
I want to step out on a risky limb and state that I think that if at possible a person is better off NOT marrying someone from another culture. And I don't say so because I'm unhappy. But rather as I raise my kids an ocean away from their grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins I have realized that the choices I made in allowing myself to fall in love with a European have altered the course of our family history and future.
I have thrown a loop in the plan of family and closeness by making it harder for my children to know and be close to their aunts, and uncles and cousins in America. I have created complications for my kids with the fact that one day they may have to choose which country they prefer.
I realize that I have made my life more difficult and more sad because I have chosen to be far from the relatives I love so dearly in the States. I realize that I have made my marriage more complicated because I threw in another language, and an entirely different world view and culture.
Now, if you, like me are married to someone from another land we know that this is exciting, and wonderful, but hard.
There are days when you don't understand the tiny things in the language that are simple, but just slip over your head because maybe you are having a bad day.
There are days when you hate living in a foreign land and long for home.
There are days when you would give anything to be in the embrace of your Mom or Dad, or Grandma who is an ocean away and who see at best every few years.
And despite all of this I am thankful for this wild adventure I'm on. Thankful for this plan God has allowed to unfold so far in my life and thankful He is still at work.
What is your cross-cultural story?
When I married a Latvian man I knew I was choosing to live my life forever away from the life grew up with and was familiar with.
Yet, growing up in the States I never thought I'd live there. I studied to be a missionary. I read about missions, I longed for adventure and to see the world.
Now 7 years later I realize that missing ones country, or to be more precise ones family, culture and upbringing never goes away. In fact, if anything the distance has seemed to grow and the difficulty in having every person from my side of the family an ocean away is hard, REALLY hard, and gets only worse with time.
Marriage is a blessing, and cross-cultural marriages can be and are very rewarding. But they have an entire set of problems that 2 people marrying from one country may never face.
I want to step out on a risky limb and state that I think that if at possible a person is better off NOT marrying someone from another culture. And I don't say so because I'm unhappy. But rather as I raise my kids an ocean away from their grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins I have realized that the choices I made in allowing myself to fall in love with a European have altered the course of our family history and future.
I have thrown a loop in the plan of family and closeness by making it harder for my children to know and be close to their aunts, and uncles and cousins in America. I have created complications for my kids with the fact that one day they may have to choose which country they prefer.
I realize that I have made my life more difficult and more sad because I have chosen to be far from the relatives I love so dearly in the States. I realize that I have made my marriage more complicated because I threw in another language, and an entirely different world view and culture.
Now, if you, like me are married to someone from another land we know that this is exciting, and wonderful, but hard.
There are days when you don't understand the tiny things in the language that are simple, but just slip over your head because maybe you are having a bad day.
There are days when you hate living in a foreign land and long for home.
There are days when you would give anything to be in the embrace of your Mom or Dad, or Grandma who is an ocean away and who see at best every few years.
And despite all of this I am thankful for this wild adventure I'm on. Thankful for this plan God has allowed to unfold so far in my life and thankful He is still at work.
What is your cross-cultural story?
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Friday, May 10, 2013
The Scent of Spring
Tonight I can feel the scent of spring.The warm air of a still spring evening is touched with the sweetness of cherry blossoms.
The life, the vivacity of spring is amazing. Just yesterday the cherry blossoms were still closed in the morning. By late afternoon they were opening in all their lovely array.
The peach and plum blossoms are also beginning to peek out in our little corner and all nature seems to sing in a silent, yet booming, glorious song of new life.
Every flower lives its day of glory with the fullest measure of color, scent and grace it can.
Spring is here, at long last, on the breeze of a warm, lovely eve.
The life, the vivacity of spring is amazing. Just yesterday the cherry blossoms were still closed in the morning. By late afternoon they were opening in all their lovely array.
The peach and plum blossoms are also beginning to peek out in our little corner and all nature seems to sing in a silent, yet booming, glorious song of new life.
Every flower lives its day of glory with the fullest measure of color, scent and grace it can.
Spring is here, at long last, on the breeze of a warm, lovely eve.
Wednesday, April 3, 2013
Latvian Bacon Rolls
Want to make something very yummy, and very Latvian?! Try these delicious Latvian piragi. Click on the photo to take you to my recipe blog.
What special foods did you make for Easter?
Friday, February 22, 2013
The Little Things
Sometimes is is something as small as iceberg lettuce which can make a person feel American in another country.
Made some yummy salads with this and green leaf lettuce- my preferred lettuce :)
It all started with the cauliflower . . .
I was at the grocery store searching for normal things, some of which were vegetables. I had just rejected the cauliflower despite the good price-- its look left much to be desired.
An older lady approached me and asked me if I speak English. These thoughts crossed my mind in an instant, "Whoa! Me, English? How did you know? Do I look that out of place here?" But I said, "Yes, I do. How funny you should ask, since I'm American."
We discussed produce, she wanted to know why I rejected the cauliflower and which vegetables were better.
Turns out she and her husband are here from the STATES house-sitting for 5 weeks.
I gave her the rundown on local produce and other produce I myself was buying which I considered a good price and good quality. I was so so happy to help a fellow citizen.
It was so random to meet Americans in the produce department. Such a God thing that he turned her eyes to me and had her ask ME if I spoke English. It was so much fun to speak English to someone ( I don't get that often over here), and so weird to have a conversation in the grocery store. I realized after that that Latvians are quiet about their shopping :)
It is interesting how if one meets a fellow countrymen thousands of miles from home you feel as if you are immediate friends.
Wednesday, February 20, 2013
Tuesdays
I love Tuesdays, can you guess why?
Tuesdays are my day out.
Our wonderful baby sitter comes and I go out.
I go to the post office most weeks.
I wait in line, sometimes a very long line.
I mail packages to far off friends and far away lands.
And sometimes, like today I even get a package myself.
Sometimes they have surprises, and conversation hearts :)
I like Tuesdays.
I get to go shopping- grocery shopping that is!
I like planning our meals and looking for deals.
I run more errands if there are more.
I sit, I think, I rest and write.
I have time for me.
I like Tuesdays.
I come home and chat with our dear sweet nanny.
I hear my kids laugh.
I plan their supper.
I like Tuesdays.
My husband comes home and changes his clothes.
Then off we go on our date night.
We go to a cafe or restaurant.
We laugh, we talk, we dream, we smile.
We have time just to sit and listen to one another without the interruptions of little ones.
I like Tuesdays because they are our special days. A day of rest for Mom and a day for a date or US.
Thank God for Tuesdays!
Monday, February 18, 2013
Winter's Flowers
A little reminder to myself to see God in the little things. I posted this 7 years ago during my first year in Latvia.
February 6, 2006
Hello Friend
As I walked to the train station I was delighted by the sparkling snow God was "sprinkling" on the earth. While waiting for the train I got the chance to examine the snowflakes that were landing on my black coat.
They were superb, each so intricate. I was amazed at God’s design, his care to the tiniest details. Usually I don’t have the chance to examine the forms of snowflakes. Even the ones the sizes of a speck were shaped like tiny flowers, with six little “petals.” “Winter’s flowers,” I thought to myself.
How creative God is. He could have made snow be shapeless little blobs. But instead each one is so beautifully shaped. How thorough God is, in all of his creation.
My heart was reprimanded; surely God was also with me. I had been feeling down, and alone. But God had never left me. He was with me all the time, caring about the little details of my life, if I would just see him. God who has designed the snowflakes, and given shape and beauty to ones barely visible, he also cares immensely for me and the events of my life. Thank God for his lessons that he is always teaching us.
Saturday, February 9, 2013
We like ours local
Today was a day of running errands, getting groceries, etc.
It has been a long while since I had been to our local market- literally an outdoor market with vendors. The meat and dairy section is indoors. But in all truth this market has changed little (as far as I recall) in the past 16 years.
I really enjoy going to the market, both here in my small town and in the capital. That is a cultural experience in and of itself for any American :)
Today I was in need of potatoes, and produce (green onions, dill, lettuce) . The man selling me produce offered me delicious cucumbers from Estonia. I kindly refused him, telling him I would wait for our own Latvian cucumbers.
Perhaps it was just me, but I am quite sure they smiled in quiet agreement. And again I was reminded how Latvians put such a high value on locally grown produce.
Growing up in America I never remember being particularly interested in where my potatoes, apples and greens came from. I cared about what they tasted like and that was the key. But in Latvia it is important, and it seems that people pay a good deal of attention to this. Knowing how things are grown in various countries plays a part in our choices of produce.
We would much prefer, I dare say , to buy apples from Poland when local ones are sold out. Believing their views on pesticides and natural growth habits to be closer to our local style than that of some more southern countries.
And those of you Latvians who read my blog, may correct my ignorance if I am mistaken. How about you, do you pay attention to where you your fruits and veges come from? Do you care? Why or why not?
It has been a long while since I had been to our local market- literally an outdoor market with vendors. The meat and dairy section is indoors. But in all truth this market has changed little (as far as I recall) in the past 16 years.
I really enjoy going to the market, both here in my small town and in the capital. That is a cultural experience in and of itself for any American :)
Today I was in need of potatoes, and produce (green onions, dill, lettuce) . The man selling me produce offered me delicious cucumbers from Estonia. I kindly refused him, telling him I would wait for our own Latvian cucumbers.
Perhaps it was just me, but I am quite sure they smiled in quiet agreement. And again I was reminded how Latvians put such a high value on locally grown produce.
Growing up in America I never remember being particularly interested in where my potatoes, apples and greens came from. I cared about what they tasted like and that was the key. But in Latvia it is important, and it seems that people pay a good deal of attention to this. Knowing how things are grown in various countries plays a part in our choices of produce.
We would much prefer, I dare say , to buy apples from Poland when local ones are sold out. Believing their views on pesticides and natural growth habits to be closer to our local style than that of some more southern countries.
And those of you Latvians who read my blog, may correct my ignorance if I am mistaken. How about you, do you pay attention to where you your fruits and veges come from? Do you care? Why or why not?
Tuesday, January 22, 2013
Common Courtesy
Yesterday I had to take my daughter to two doctors at the children's hospital. The first appointment was actually only to see the nurse and have patches of various food items put on her back to test for allergic reactions.
We have never done this before and so everything is new and confusing. In general I always slightly dread going to doctors here because 1. Everything is in another language and 2. People are just different in various cultures.
I was a little taken aback when as a nurse sped into the office I was waiting by and I tried to address her she completely ignored me and closed the door in my face. All I wanted to know was if I was waiting by the correct door. . .
When we finally did get into the office we were cared for by the same unfriendly nurse. Not once did she address my little daughter. Not once did she make any form of friendly conversation with us. She did her job and that was it.
I was again reminded that I do not live in my home country.
As I recounted this to my husband he reminded me how little people make here in Latvia. He said if I wanted politeness and friendly conversation than I could have paid for our visit. There are two ways of doing things here- the planned way- where you wait and all medical services are for free for kids. Or where you pay and schedule more to your convenience.
I was saddened by this conversation. I know it is true that these people make very little- but in my opinion as humans and fellow walkers of the earth we ought to be kind to one another and at least show common courtesy- especially at a children's hospital-where the child is afraid already.
A tear slipped down my cheek as I told my husband with emotion in my voice "Let's raise our children to be kind to others, and show courtesy no matter how much they are paid. "
Because in my humble opinion a good attitude should not have to be so shallow that it can be bought with money.
Note: Not all medical workers are like this. We have one of the most wonderful family doctors around for our kids. She goes above and beyond herself, even outside work hours.
We have never done this before and so everything is new and confusing. In general I always slightly dread going to doctors here because 1. Everything is in another language and 2. People are just different in various cultures.
I was a little taken aback when as a nurse sped into the office I was waiting by and I tried to address her she completely ignored me and closed the door in my face. All I wanted to know was if I was waiting by the correct door. . .
When we finally did get into the office we were cared for by the same unfriendly nurse. Not once did she address my little daughter. Not once did she make any form of friendly conversation with us. She did her job and that was it.
I was again reminded that I do not live in my home country.
As I recounted this to my husband he reminded me how little people make here in Latvia. He said if I wanted politeness and friendly conversation than I could have paid for our visit. There are two ways of doing things here- the planned way- where you wait and all medical services are for free for kids. Or where you pay and schedule more to your convenience.
I was saddened by this conversation. I know it is true that these people make very little- but in my opinion as humans and fellow walkers of the earth we ought to be kind to one another and at least show common courtesy- especially at a children's hospital-where the child is afraid already.
A tear slipped down my cheek as I told my husband with emotion in my voice "Let's raise our children to be kind to others, and show courtesy no matter how much they are paid. "
Because in my humble opinion a good attitude should not have to be so shallow that it can be bought with money.
Note: Not all medical workers are like this. We have one of the most wonderful family doctors around for our kids. She goes above and beyond herself, even outside work hours.
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Thursday, January 17, 2013
A Straight Pin Adventure
Today I went to the local sewing shop to get some straight pins with balls on the end. I need these for my silk painting, to use as claws for the stretching of the silk.
However, they didn't have the kind with balls on the ends. So I was directed to the Universal Store. This store is a 3 story department store, with a little bit of everything. When you step into this store it as if you are stepping back in time. Nothing has changed in the way they do things it would appear in at least the last 30 years. We wonder how they survive with all the new malls and stores. Maybe older folks like feeling like things don't change.
All of the items in the store are behind the counter, beyond reach, and must be requested if you desire to look at them more closely. I remember how we found that so strange and cold when we came to live here for one year in 1996.
As I made my several store stops I was thinking how life is so much more complicated here- even just to get straight pins. There is no Wal-Mart to run to where you can find at least 3 kinds of straight pins and they are always in stock. I certainly got spoiled with our 2 months in America and the easy accessibility to Wal-Mart and any fancy I might have night or day being within reach.
At least I did find some pins- and can now get back into the business of silk painting. I have been so busy trying to get into a routine with cooking, cleaning, caring for the kids and doing homeschool that I haven't had time to paint. I have been yearning to do some painting and hope that soon I will again being able to take up my brush and let the color flow!
However, they didn't have the kind with balls on the ends. So I was directed to the Universal Store. This store is a 3 story department store, with a little bit of everything. When you step into this store it as if you are stepping back in time. Nothing has changed in the way they do things it would appear in at least the last 30 years. We wonder how they survive with all the new malls and stores. Maybe older folks like feeling like things don't change.
All of the items in the store are behind the counter, beyond reach, and must be requested if you desire to look at them more closely. I remember how we found that so strange and cold when we came to live here for one year in 1996.
As I made my several store stops I was thinking how life is so much more complicated here- even just to get straight pins. There is no Wal-Mart to run to where you can find at least 3 kinds of straight pins and they are always in stock. I certainly got spoiled with our 2 months in America and the easy accessibility to Wal-Mart and any fancy I might have night or day being within reach.
At least I did find some pins- and can now get back into the business of silk painting. I have been so busy trying to get into a routine with cooking, cleaning, caring for the kids and doing homeschool that I haven't had time to paint. I have been yearning to do some painting and hope that soon I will again being able to take up my brush and let the color flow!
Wednesday, January 2, 2013
Re-Entry Part 1
By now living in another country could come as no surprise,
right? I have now lived here 7 years. But every time I make reentry into this
land I find that things still surprise me or seem to smack me in the face with
how just very different these two cultures I know really are.
Today was my first day „out” after having been 2 months in
the states. Our technical pass had expired on our car which bounds us to home
unless renewed. But to do that first I was supposed to go get the tires
switched to the winter ones.
After wiling my way from the kids I went to get into the
car. I was horrified to be greeted with mold growing here, there and everyone
in our car. Mold on the seats, belts, flaps. Yuck, who could imagine what two
months can do when live in a damp climate.
I drove to the place to get the tires switched- hoping no
police would be out. I made it and waited 20 minutes in the cold garage while
two men switched my tires. Brr.. . . I should have dressed warmer. I paced the
floor of the garage trying to keep my toes warm.
Off to the next place to pay the road taxes and try to get
at least a one month pass, in which we can drive and fix the list of things to
be repaired on the car. Wow, $360.00 for 2 years of road taxes- and that is
with our large family discount. Yikes!
I drove to the line waiting to have their cars inspected.
Keeping my window open a tad to keep the windows from fogging over- our fans,
vents, heat and the whole system stopped working before we left two months ago.
The mold on the dash stinks and I open the door , hoping this mold isn’t
dangerous. I wonder what we should do about the mold, if it can be cleaned, if
it is harmful and when we will ever be able to get a different car. Brr. . . my
feet are numb.
It is my turn to drive up and I am supposed to turn lights
on and off, turn signāls, bright lights- oops, where are those? Two months is
long enough to forget a lot about ones car. I feel like a ninny when I have to
tell the guy I need help turning my brights on. He got in the car and did the
rest of the tests.
We have a huge list of things to fix on the car and one
month to do it, but at least we can drive to the store when need be. Walking
would be a chore, and take so much more time.
I head to the store. I get all the things we need, it seems
like a lot. But our basics are all out. This feels like we are just moving in,
we need so many things. When I drive out to the car with the buggy I notice two
men (beggars) walking near my car. I hope they will go away. I have never seen
people begging by this store before.. One stands and watches while I unload my
groceries. I try to avoid eye contact, hoping he will go away. Finally, I look
at him, he is trying to show me a sign. I attempt to read it as he bounces it
in front of me. He isn’t able to talk and wants me to give him money.
My husband has a policy that we never give money- nearly
every beggar in Latvia wants the money for alcohol or cigarettes. My husband
also wants people to learn to work- so he always offers people work when they
ask for money. If a person is willing to work, he will pay them. Knowing this,
I take a loaf of bread and offer him food. If a person is truly starving and in
need, they will be grateful for food. We have often discussed this with friends
since beggars are in abundance here. He takes the bread, but motions to the
part of the cart where you have to put a coin in to use the cart. I can tell he
is trying to get me to understand he wants the money when I return the cart.
I lock my car and head to return my cart, the other guy is
standing in the overhang smoking. I assume his accomplice is going to wait
until I get the money out and ask for it. So I turn around, prepared in my
heart to give it if this is the only way to have him be satisfied and stop
asking. But they are gone, gone on into the store with their bread.
And so goes my life in this world so very different from the
American one I grew up in . . .
Thursday, March 29, 2012
The Life I Live
Last summer my brother spent a good two months with us. It has been very interesting to see how those two months left such a lasting impression on him and how he liked so much of the natural lives we live here. I guess that after 6 years in Latvia I begin to take things for granted and wanted to share some of his musing with you.
I loved how close to the land ya'll live in Latvia. I'm definitely gonna pick blueberries in the mountains here this year. I was told on good authority that they do grow here. Trying to figure out how to live more like ya'll in some ways. Want my next home to have place for a garden... hopefully a dog too.
Sad how berry pickers and gardeners and fishermen are kinda like "crazies" here... there people actually do it for sustenance.
Here we don't experience the seasons like you do there. We turn on a switch when we need heat or AC... sometimes that's as much of the seasonal interaction that we seem to have. The produce is always in the stores, pretty much the same... just going up or down in price according to the seasons in Florida or Washington or California--somewhere across the country.
Guess I'm saying that you should be thankful for what you've got, just letting you see things through my eyes a bit.
And I should learn to live more like ya'll here, and encourage other to do so. :)
Neighbors... that's another thing I could get going on, where you Latvians are a great example to us.
I loved how close to the land ya'll live in Latvia. I'm definitely gonna pick blueberries in the mountains here this year. I was told on good authority that they do grow here. Trying to figure out how to live more like ya'll in some ways. Want my next home to have place for a garden... hopefully a dog too.
Sad how berry pickers and gardeners and fishermen are kinda like "crazies" here... there people actually do it for sustenance.
Here we don't experience the seasons like you do there. We turn on a switch when we need heat or AC... sometimes that's as much of the seasonal interaction that we seem to have. The produce is always in the stores, pretty much the same... just going up or down in price according to the seasons in Florida or Washington or California--somewhere across the country.
Guess I'm saying that you should be thankful for what you've got, just letting you see things through my eyes a bit.
And I should learn to live more like ya'll here, and encourage other to do so. :)

Neighbors... that's another thing I could get going on, where you Latvians are a great example to us.
Wednesday, January 25, 2012
The Way God Works
Sometimes it seems that God is just doing His usual thing- helping my life run smoothly on track without too many daily times of derailing it. (Losing my patience with my kids, lashing out if I am tired or frustrated, etc)
Other times I have a "Wow, God" moment and stand amazed at the awesome things he is doing through my ordinary life.
The other day a friend had a little surprise baby shower for a mutual friends of ours. This girl we had the shower for is not a believer to our knowledge. But she attended our Mom's group and we so love her company. There was another girl we aren't sure about either. Anyhow, we had a nice evening at local pizza place, chatted and visited, etc.
Note: Baby showers are a not a Latvian thing. They are starting to become more popular among friends who know what they are- but it is definitely a US thing and they even use the same name we do for it :)
This girl we had the shower for was surprised and totally blessed. Not to mention the fact that we also want to take her meals after the baby is born. (Another totally un-Latvian thing which is also be adopted here). She was like, "I can't accept that. How am I ever going to make it up to you?!" We laughed and told her we didn't expect her to make it up. We told her there is joy in the giving and blessing.
A week has passed and we wondered how she liked the shower. This evening my friend who organized the shower called me and said that our friend Ina (the Mom we had the shower for) was totally blessed. The following day she called a bunch of friends and told them there are people out there who don't just think about themselves, but who do things for others too.
To us it was something so simple. As believers we work together, support one another, take dinners when need be and just hang together. This lady outside our circle was shocked and blessed and taken aback that there are people like "us" in the world.
Isn't that amazing to see how God is using evening the simplest things to show people Himself through us?
What God moments have you had lately?
Other times I have a "Wow, God" moment and stand amazed at the awesome things he is doing through my ordinary life.
The other day a friend had a little surprise baby shower for a mutual friends of ours. This girl we had the shower for is not a believer to our knowledge. But she attended our Mom's group and we so love her company. There was another girl we aren't sure about either. Anyhow, we had a nice evening at local pizza place, chatted and visited, etc.
Note: Baby showers are a not a Latvian thing. They are starting to become more popular among friends who know what they are- but it is definitely a US thing and they even use the same name we do for it :)
This girl we had the shower for was surprised and totally blessed. Not to mention the fact that we also want to take her meals after the baby is born. (Another totally un-Latvian thing which is also be adopted here). She was like, "I can't accept that. How am I ever going to make it up to you?!" We laughed and told her we didn't expect her to make it up. We told her there is joy in the giving and blessing.
A week has passed and we wondered how she liked the shower. This evening my friend who organized the shower called me and said that our friend Ina (the Mom we had the shower for) was totally blessed. The following day she called a bunch of friends and told them there are people out there who don't just think about themselves, but who do things for others too.
To us it was something so simple. As believers we work together, support one another, take dinners when need be and just hang together. This lady outside our circle was shocked and blessed and taken aback that there are people like "us" in the world.
Isn't that amazing to see how God is using evening the simplest things to show people Himself through us?
What God moments have you had lately?
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Tuesday, January 24, 2012
Cheese Salad
Cheese salad is very popular in Latvia and since I am constantly hungry now due to my growing baby, I try to eat foods packed with protein. This salad can be dressed up for special occasions by putting it in on fancy crackers or in salty tart shells. It is served that way as an appetizer here.
Ingredients: (For 2 people)
1 boiled egg
1 boiled or steamed carrot (1/2 if yours are large)
6 oz. grated cheese - In Latvian almost all cheeses are white and I use a simple white cheese. You could probably use cheddar. Try a variety of whatever you have on hand.
2 cloves finely minced garlic.
3 T. mayo
Pepper to taste.
Instructions:
Grate ingredients. Mix together and refrigerate. Best if it has time for the flavors to "marry." We love it on crackers or with some delicious bread. Enjoy!
Ingredients: (For 2 people)
1 boiled egg
1 boiled or steamed carrot (1/2 if yours are large)
6 oz. grated cheese - In Latvian almost all cheeses are white and I use a simple white cheese. You could probably use cheddar. Try a variety of whatever you have on hand.
2 cloves finely minced garlic.
3 T. mayo
Pepper to taste.
Instructions:
Grate ingredients. Mix together and refrigerate. Best if it has time for the flavors to "marry." We love it on crackers or with some delicious bread. Enjoy!
Saturday, January 14, 2012
One of Them
If you have ever had the chance to live abroad for an extended amount of time or perhaps have permanently changed your country of residence perhaps you have encountered the feelings of "belonging."
6 years ago I moved from the USA to Latvia. I came as an English teacher to teach in a church. Yes, my ancestors on my Dad's side are from this land. But I am American.
I love Latvia. I love living my life somewhere other than where I grew up. But sometimes I wonder if I am really one of these people. I wonder have they accepted me? Do I belong? Am I one of them? In some ways I have carved that niche and "fit" but at other times I feel such an outsider.
There is so much red tape to living in another country- things that we never encounter in America. Things we take for granted in our own country. Arranging documents for living abroad, using another language fluently, just learning to make the best use of the local products that are cheapest and healthiest.
What are your experiences of living and belonging in another country?
6 years ago I moved from the USA to Latvia. I came as an English teacher to teach in a church. Yes, my ancestors on my Dad's side are from this land. But I am American.
I love Latvia. I love living my life somewhere other than where I grew up. But sometimes I wonder if I am really one of these people. I wonder have they accepted me? Do I belong? Am I one of them? In some ways I have carved that niche and "fit" but at other times I feel such an outsider.
There is so much red tape to living in another country- things that we never encounter in America. Things we take for granted in our own country. Arranging documents for living abroad, using another language fluently, just learning to make the best use of the local products that are cheapest and healthiest.
What are your experiences of living and belonging in another country?
Monday, January 2, 2012
Ideal Mom
Sometimes I get to thinking I am no the Mom I would like to be. There are so many ways I could improve and yet I am doing my best to be the best Mom I can be. When I imagine the ideal Mom these are some thoughts that come to my mind: (Not in any particular order)
I am continually desiring to be a better Mom. Yet so often I am tired, worn out and stressed. Being 25 weeks pregnant my back often hurts and I feel so tired I just want to lay down. Sometimes I do just that- then my kids play next to me and we are all happy.
In my quest to become a better Mom, God is continually speaking to my heart. Lately I have been meditating on these verses:
Romans 5: 3-5 (New Living Translation)
How encouraging to know that God is using ever trial I face as a Mom to make me the person He desires. And what a blessing to know that the Holy Spirit dwelling in me is proof of God's love for and in me.
- Patient always.
- Sings lullabies and songs with children.
- Reads books and spends time teaching children.
- Has time to home school and do all the other things needed to make a household function.
- Cares for oneself and looks lovely.
- Has a good relationship with husband- makes time for date nights.
- Has a growing relationship with God.
- A mother in prayer for the salvation and spiritual growth of her children.
- Knows how to creatively discipline and meet each child's individual needs.
- Cooks well balanced meals that everyone eats.
- Sews, knits and makes all kinds of handmade goodies and gifts.
I am continually desiring to be a better Mom. Yet so often I am tired, worn out and stressed. Being 25 weeks pregnant my back often hurts and I feel so tired I just want to lay down. Sometimes I do just that- then my kids play next to me and we are all happy.
In my quest to become a better Mom, God is continually speaking to my heart. Lately I have been meditating on these verses:
Romans 5: 3-5 (New Living Translation)
We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our our confident hope of salvation. And hope does not lead to disappointment. For we know how dearly God loves us, because he has given us the Holy Spirit to fill our hearts with his love.
How encouraging to know that God is using ever trial I face as a Mom to make me the person He desires. And what a blessing to know that the Holy Spirit dwelling in me is proof of God's love for and in me.
Sunday, November 20, 2011
November 18
Is the day when Latvia celebrates its Independence Day. So of course it is a national holiday.
We headed to Riga in the afternoon to join in the festivities. There are lots of free concerts. We had chosen to go to a kokle concert. Kokles are fascinating to me because they are a traditional Latvian instrument. The concert was a group of four ladies.
They played in a museum of Jugend Style in a room that held about 30 people. It was so lovely, and small and personal. I love the Jugend- early 1900 decor. It was so much more than I anticipated. The girls working in the museum were dressed in Victorian clothes with the most wonderful hats. This time era always pleases me and so when the music started I was taken over by emotions because the whole atmosphere- decorations, and beautiful music was just so lovely. Of course I cried. Which reminded me of my grandma and her saying through her tears (as she listens to music), "It is just too beautiful. I can't take it." That made me smile to myself.
When the concert was over we got to walk about the museum. It was small, but charming. It has been refurbished to look like an apartment would have looked at that time.
We then walk a bit about Riga. There were tons of people- I heard there were a million out that evening. We left before the larger crowds arrived. But we enjoyed seeing some gatherings and light exhibitions.
We ended our evening out by eating at McDonald's. Something we never ever do- but a fun way to feel American now and then :) The kids loved that.
We headed to Riga in the afternoon to join in the festivities. There are lots of free concerts. We had chosen to go to a kokle concert. Kokles are fascinating to me because they are a traditional Latvian instrument. The concert was a group of four ladies.
They played in a museum of Jugend Style in a room that held about 30 people. It was so lovely, and small and personal. I love the Jugend- early 1900 decor. It was so much more than I anticipated. The girls working in the museum were dressed in Victorian clothes with the most wonderful hats. This time era always pleases me and so when the music started I was taken over by emotions because the whole atmosphere- decorations, and beautiful music was just so lovely. Of course I cried. Which reminded me of my grandma and her saying through her tears (as she listens to music), "It is just too beautiful. I can't take it." That made me smile to myself.
When the concert was over we got to walk about the museum. It was small, but charming. It has been refurbished to look like an apartment would have looked at that time.
We then walk a bit about Riga. There were tons of people- I heard there were a million out that evening. We left before the larger crowds arrived. But we enjoyed seeing some gatherings and light exhibitions.
We ended our evening out by eating at McDonald's. Something we never ever do- but a fun way to feel American now and then :) The kids loved that.
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